{"id":5814,"date":"2018-02-09T01:21:19","date_gmt":"2018-02-09T04:21:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kinbakumania.com\/?p=5814"},"modified":"2018-04-16T00:48:06","modified_gmt":"2018-04-16T03:48:06","slug":"seguridad-con-las-cuerdas-video-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kinbakumania.com\/en\/seguridad-con-las-cuerdas-video-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Rope Safety &#8211;  Video 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">Some days ago we shared with you our first video about Rope Safety.\u00a0 This is a subject that always mattered us and that we keep on addressing on every workshop, on every Open Dojo, and to every new student or rope model that come to us. We feel that nothing is enough when you talk about safety, and repeting once and again the key points over and over is not redundant.\u00a0 That&#8217;s why we decided to make a video where we can put a face to it and explain the subject to those that because of the distance, or perhaps because they do not know us, didn&#8217;t have the chance to hear it.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">Every and each one of the videos have a hard and conscious work behind.\u00a0 We try to pick the best phrases, the best way to address each subject so that everyone can understand them the same way we do. May any interpretation missunderstanding arise after that, or maybe some expressions could be done better&#8230;\u00a0 The fact is that we put our best effort and we&#8217;re trying to learn how to do it better each time.\u00a0 Constructive criticism is always welcome.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">In this first video we focus on general aspects related to rope play, on the crucial importance of the proactive communication, on the crucial consensus between those participating in the rope session, and the expectations definitions from both sides.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CFn4A4crBu4?rel=0?cc_load_policy=1&amp;cc_lang_pref=en\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>ENGLISH SUBTITLES ARE AVAILABLE FOR THIS VIDEO<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">Some relevant phrases that we might remember from this video:<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Rope play primary focus is always to have fun, enjoing a good time and, avoid hurting ourselves.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;It&#8217;s good to always remind that a well done shibari, in all general cases, should not hurt.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;All rope practice should always be done <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>ALWAYS\u00a0in a consensual manner<\/strong><\/span>, both before and during the same.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Both parts should always be clear on what&#8217;s agreed and what&#8217;s not.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;It&#8217;s a good practice that both parts\u00a0would put their expectations clear <\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><b><u>BEFORE<\/u><\/b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">\u00a0starting the rope session.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;A rope session <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">does not necessarily involve<\/span> any kind of sexual activity.\u00a0And if that was agreed, it&#8217;s always good to put ir clear <strong>BEFORE<\/strong> starting the rope session.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Despite we should have <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">agreed and respected<\/span> the limits and expectations for any rope session, that should not mean that any of the participants <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">should be forced to continue<\/span> if he or she suddenly changes his\/her mind.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;A shibari rope session\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">does not necessarily imply<\/span>\u00a0that the people involved\u00a0should be in a <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Dom\/sub (D\/s) role<\/span>. If that was previously agreed\u00a0and you go into D\/s during the rope session,\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">that should never impeede or bother<\/span> neither safety nor communication between the rope model and the rigger.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Neither wearing a choker nor dressing in leather, or in black, necessarily indicates that we&#8217;re into BDSM. Then also the fact that we enjoy ropes either as rigger or as a model should mean that we have any BDSM role.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Phisical contact between rigger and model has a lot to do with <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">the attitude that rigger drives<\/span> in it while doing it. Any bound person\u00a0may be impeeded to move during the session, but <strong>that does not entitles us<\/strong> to go <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">beyond the limits both agreed<\/span> before the session&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;If anything that is happening to you\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">bothers or hurts you<\/span>\u00a0&#8230; <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>SAY IT RIGHT AWAY<\/strong><\/span>.\u00a0 Express it <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">clearly and in a descriptive manner<\/span> to avoid any kind of doubts.\u00a0 Such as&#8230;.\u00a0 <em>my nose is itching,\u00a0mi right arm is numb,\u00a0<\/em>or<em>\u00a0I feel tickles in my left hand\u00a0<\/em>.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;If any time happens to you <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">having a bad time during a rope session<\/span>\u00a0and you didn&#8217;t dare to say it during it,\u00a0what I suggest you first is that\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">as soon as you can\u00a0talk about it with your rigger<\/span>\u00a0so that both would learn from the experience and so to be sure <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">this won&#8217;t happen again<\/span>.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Please remember that you can always count on\u00a0the <strong>rope community support<\/strong>\u00a0regarding bad practices and safety issues during rope sessions.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Although the rigger should always be looking after\u00a0the model&#8217;s wellbeing and safety, <strong>models themselves are still ALWAYS responsible<\/strong>, for <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">communicating what is happening<\/span> to them. Because there are ceratin things\u00a0that unless said\u00a0are really hard for the rigger\u00a0to know that they&#8217;re happening.<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Whatever you can or can&#8217;t do and whatever you are willing or willing not to do does not turn yourself neither in a better nor in a worse rope model.&#8221; <\/span><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Any rigger should be <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">happy\u00a0to receive any information about how do you feel<\/span>. Because it&#8217;s going to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">help them\u00a0to improve their technique<\/span>\u00a0and <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">know you better<\/span> by the moment as a rope model.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;As time goes by you&#8217;ll find how your body reacts with each one of the ties and how do you also feel being tied by different riggers.&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\"><strong>&#8220;Don&#8217;t let anyone tell you\u00a0what you have or do not have to endure\u00a0during a rope session<\/strong><strong>.\u00a0You&#8217;re the only one that knows your own body\u00a0and the one to know what you&#8217;re feeling\u00a0at any moment.<\/strong>&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">&#8220;Pain management\u00a0requires <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>TOTAL CONTROL from rigger&#8217;s side<\/strong><\/span>.\u00a0Rigger should be able to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">stop provoking pain<\/span> <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">at any time<\/span> the rope model asks for it. And should be able to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">end the rope session without any damage or injury<\/span> nor <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>any rope marks<\/strong> <strong>that lasts more than a few minutes<\/strong><\/span>&#8220;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">We want to thank those who helped us producing this video.\u00a0 When talking about rope safety we want all voices to be heard, adding to the leading HaruTsubaki&#8217;s wide experience, those experiences from dojo&#8217;s students and models they want to add from their personal point of view.\u00a0 We feel this adds to the content and let us all learn from each other. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: verdana, geneva; font-size: medium;\">We invite you to our next videos to come. 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